How you match with someone
From two names and two dates of birth, we read the shape of the relationship. No sign-up needed.
What kind of relationship?
A relationship between equals
Which stretch of time?
How compatibility is worked out
Compatibility is read through four methods using both people's names and dates of birth: the Four Pillars day stem, the Nine Star Ki natal star, the personality number in name analysis, and the numerology life path number. With names in Latin letters, name analysis drops out and three remain.
The four do not carry equal weight. Four Pillars counts most, because the day stem is taken to stand for the person, and the combined value becomes the score.
Why you choose a relationship
The same two people read differently as friends and as manager and team member. Each relationship puts something different at the centre of the reading.
| Relationship | What the reading centres on |
|---|---|
| As friends | Whether you can relax around each other, and which of you tends to look after the other |
| As colleagues | Whether your ways of working mesh, and who lays the groundwork while the other shapes it |
| They are senior to you | Whether you are likely to be brought forward, or to find their demands heavy |
| You are senior to them | Whether you work well as the one who develops them, or tend to push too hard |
| Romantically | Whether you wear each other out, and which of you tends to give more |
A pairing where one side holds the other back is not treated as a poor match. At work that tension can keep you both sharp; between partners it is more likely to weigh on you. The meaning moves with the relationship.
If you swap the two people
Swapping yourself and the other person can change the score. The Five Elements have a direction, and the reading turns on which side is holding back the other. Since the reading looks at a relationship with two different sides, the side you look from matters.
The readings on this service are reference material drawn from the traditional interpretations of each method. They do not guarantee future events or outcomes. For decisions concerning health, law or money, please consult a qualified professional.